Mind Games & Mysteries

FAQs

1. What should I expect during a hypnotherapy session if I've never experienced hypnosis before?

Your private hypnotherapy session will be a gentle, guided relaxation experience where you remain aware while accessing a deeper state of focused attention. You'll be comfortably in control throughout. The hypnotherapist will help you access your unconscious mind to explore patterns in your love or dating life.

Most first-timers describe the experience as similar to being absorbed in a daydream or a guided meditation —relaxed yet mentally engaged. The session typically begins with relaxation techniques, followed by therapeutic suggestions tailored to your needs, and concludes with a gentle return to full alertness.

Often, participants are surprised by how natural the process feels and report leaving their session feeling refreshed, insightful, with a sense of joyful calm clarity.

2. What kinds of lasting changes or skills might I develop during this retreat that could benefit my dating life afterward?

Participants typically develop several valuable skills that continue working for them long after the retreat ends:

• Enhanced emotional intelligence that helps you recognise genuine connection opportunities

• Improved awareness of non-verbal communication cues you may have missed before

• Effective techniques for creating authentic rapport quickly and naturally

• Self-hypnosis methods for accessing useful emotional or mental states

• Heightened sensory awareness that creates more profound connections

• The ability to be authentically vulnerable in ways that foster intimacy

• Clear understanding of your relationship patterns and what you truly need

Many participants report a significant shift in their approach to dating afterward — focusing less on superficial compatibility and more on creating authentic connections using the psychological techniques practised during our retreat.

3. What Should I Pack?

Evening Event Attire

(in order of the parties):

Opposites Attract Ball (Day 1) - An outfit that represents your "opposite" self. For example: a colourful, patterned shirt if you usually wear plain tones; formal attire if you're typically casual; or bright colours if you normally wear neutrals

Wine & Wisdom Party (Day 2) - Smart-casual outfit with vintage elements, such as a classic blazer with jeans, a vintage-inspired dress, or accessories that tell a story

Candlelight Party (Day 3) - Formal attire that looks striking in soft lighting, such as an elegant cocktail dress or suit with something that catches the light

Talent Show (Day 4) - Creative outfit that represents a passion or interest, perhaps a favourite band t-shirt with a blazer or something that shows your personality

Inner Jungle Party (Day 5) - Safari/explorer-themed items such as khaki clothing, a safari hat, or subtle animal print accessories

You Are The DJ Party (Day 6) - Music-inspired attire related to your favourite musical era or artist

Practical Essentials

• Weather-appropriate clothing

• Comfortable walking shoes for forest trails and outdoor activities

• Swimwear for spa facilities

• A small backpack for day excursions

• Any personal medications and toiletries

• Plug adaptors (if necessary)

• A notebook and pen for capturing insights and reflections

Technology & Personal Items

• Your three favourite songs on a USB drive or phone (for the DJ Party)

• A small musical instrument if you play one (optional)

• A small torch/flashlight for evening walks

4. How should I approach the themed parties? What if I feel uncomfortable with costumes, or specific themes?

Our themed parties are designed to be enjoyable catalysts for connection and creative expression and you're welcome to interpret each theme as elaborately, or as simply as you wish.

For those who prefer subtlety, minimal symbolic elements work perfectly well. For example, at the Opposites Attract Ball, wearing something in a colour you normally avoid can be sufficient. Where possible, we can recommend local costume rental options for those who feel inspired to go more theatrical.

If you're uncomfortable with any theme, our retreat staff can suggest elegant alternatives that honour your comfort level while still allowing full participation. The focus is on the fun and connections these events create, not the perfection of your costume. Many participants find that stepping slightly outside their comfort zone in this supportive environment leads to unexpected insights and connections.

5. What happens if I experience an emotional breakthrough or difficult feelings during the retreat? What support is available?

Emotional breakthroughs are natural and valued aspects of the retreat experience. We've created several support structures to ensure you feel safe during these moments:

•  Our expert hypnotherapist is available for additional guidance when needed

• The daily schedule includes intentional reflection time to process experiences

• The intimate group setting naturally provides peer support and understanding

•  Our retreat leader is specifically trained in supporting emotional responses

If you experience intense emotions, you're welcome to take personal space when needed or request additional support. These moments, while sometimes challenging, often lead to the most significant insights and personal growth. The retreat environment is carefully designed to provide the safety needed for meaningful emotional exploration.

6. What's the male/female ratio?

The retreat maintains a perfectly balanced ratio of men and women, with equal numbers of each gender in every group. This intentional balance is essential for our specialised psychological exercises and pairing activities throughout the program.

Our retreat retreats usually hosts eight participants—four men and four women—though this may occasionally vary. Regardless of the total number, the male/female ratio always remains 1:1, ensuring everyone has equitable opportunities for connection and participation in the mind games and social experiences.

7. Is this a hook-up retreat?

We stack the deck with equal parts psychology and possibility, then let the cards fall where they may. Some find partnerships that sizzle; others discover connections that simmer long after the retreat ends; and many unlock something even more valuable - insights they'll carry into every future encounter.

The hypnotic dance of attraction follows its own rhythm here. We simply provide the exceptional dance floor, the fascinating partners, and perhaps most valuably—the rare chance to see beneath the surface.

And like in any sophisticated encounter, we all understand the rules: chemistry requires two willing participants. When someone deals you a "no," you take it with the same elegance you'd accept a perfectly aged wine—appreciatively and without question. Whatever sparks in the enchanted air is entirely your affair—we're just in the business of making those sparks possible.

8. How can I maintain the insights and connections from the retreat once I return to everyday life?

The retreat includes specific integration tools to help sustain your experience:

• You'll learn self-hypnosis techniques for reinforcing insights in daily life

• You'll create personalised "anchors" (like the Feel Good Button) that reconnect you to useful learnings

• You'll receive guidance on journaling practices to continue self-discovery

• You'll have the opportunity to establish communication channels with other participants who wish to stay connected

Many past participants report that the most valuable integration happens when they immediately apply a specific technique from the retreat in their dating life within the first week after returning home.

You may be surprised to discover how effortlessly your newfound skills become part of your natural interaction style. The techniques learned during our retreat are designed to integrate seamlessly into your everyday life, allowing you to maintain momentum without conscious effort.

Many participants find that what initially required attention during the retreat soon becomes second nature in their relationships, creating lasting positive change with remarkable ease.

9. What's Your Policy on Payments and Cancellations?

We require a 50% deposit when booking a retreat, with the remaining balance due 30 days before your start date.

For cancellations made 30+ days before your retreat, we offer a 100% refund;

15-29 days before, a 50% refund;

and less than 15 days before, no refund is provided.

Rescheduling is free with 30+ days' notice, but administrative fees apply for later changes.

We recommend purchasing comprehensive travel insurance to protect your investment.

For our complete payment and cancellation policies, please visit our Payments Information page.

10. What is Your Privacy Policy?

We deeply value your privacy and take comprehensive measures to protect your personal information.

We collect only essential data needed to provide our services and will never sell your information to third parties.

During our retreats, we strictly prohibit the use of mobile phones, laptops, and other electronic devices during sessions, workshops, and parties to ensure everyone's privacy and to create an environment where participants can fully express themselves without concern about being photographed or recorded. This policy fosters genuine connection and presence, allowing you to immerse yourself completely in the retreat experience.

For our full privacy policy, please visit our Privacy Policy page.

11. How flexible is the retreat schedule? Should I expect any changes to the advertised programme?

While we carefully design each retreat programme and strive to deliver the experience exactly as advertised, the art of creating transformative retreats sometimes involves thoughtful adaptation.

Our published schedules represent our committed intention, but we occasionally make refinements based on:

• The unique energy and dynamics of each participant group

• Seasonal factors at our venues that may enhance certain activities

• Opportunities to incorporate exceptional local experiences that become available

• Feedback and emerging needs of participants during the retreat

Any adjustments we make are guided by a single principle: to elevate your retreat experience. Significant changes—those affecting the fundamental nature or key elements of your retreat—will be communicated to you promptly, with clear explanations.

For complete details about our approach to programme modifications, we encourage you to review our comprehensive Terms & Conditions.